Hey. You are kind of a superpower.
Grown-ups have done some of these things for years without thinking about them. You get to see them fresh - and that is exactly why kids are the best teachers in the house.
How to teach your grown-ups
This is the fun part. But nobody likes being told off - so teach the way you would want to be taught.
- 1
Show, do not scold
Do not say “you are doing it wrong.” Say “look what I learnt today!” and show them the picture.
- 2
Do it together
Buckle your belt first. Carry your wrapper to the bin. People copy what they see far more than what they are told.
- 3
One small thing at a time
Not everything at once. Pick one. When it sticks, pick the next.
- 4
Say “me too”
You have done these things too - everyone has. “I used to do this, now I try not to” is kinder than “you should not.”
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Be patient, be proud
Old habits change slowly. When your grown-up gets it right, notice it out loud. That is how it grows.
Always with love and respect. Your elders have taught you a thousand things. This is just one you get to teach back.
You couldn't have known. Now you do. Now go be the reason your street gets a little kinder.